Friday, December 19, 2008

13 Years...


Jun and I just celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary. 13 years ago before I agreed to marry him, I was so in love and so very sure that he truly is the perfect one for me. Now 13 years later, after 3 kids, tons of trials and test of strength and faith, I believe he is truly the the right one for me. Not because of it's my fate but because it's my choice. Love is always a choice. Although at times we have different opinions and decisions I truly believe that he is a great guy and the right one for me.
I say it because lately I Jun and I had been facing some challenges in our business, the marriage is great as ever but we have been affected by this worldwide crisis also and I've been so stressed out. Then a guy from the past resurfaced with a lot of questions and suggestions and I get to think again a lot about life as it has been then and what could have been had the past decisions been different. Then I thought hard and came to the conclusion that hey I got a great life here with a wonderful husband who lets me grow as I need to grow and loves me the way that I needed to be loved and trust me to always do the right thing. We're still having some challenges but I believe that its all temporary and we will rise above it.

Mini Me


I find myself amused and in awe to have a little girl who totally love to imitate me. The way I talk, the way I stress a point. Just the other day I was jokingly scolding Jun with matching hand on my hips and with fingers pointing at him with an serious expression. When I turned and left, she, Crystal, did exactly what I did and said exactly what I said. My husband calls her mini me. She acts like a mother even around her big brothers. Of course she's not just a mini me. She's also my shadow. She goes where I go and does what I do. If I shower she showers again, if i enter my bedroom, goes to the kitchen, the office, the sala, the dining room...just anywhere, she will just simply follow. Motherhood is great!